How to prepare yourself before sex

Knowing how to prepare yourself before sex is a fundamental skill. Sex includes physical and emotional connections. When one is missing or not well prepared, the act lacks vigor. 

Physical preparation before sex

What is physical preparation?

Physical preparation involves taking time to clean your body. It can be both internally and externally. Under physical preparation, I will discuss oral and body hygiene. 

Oral hygiene 

Oral hygiene is very important especially if you love kissing. Your mouth should be clean. Before meeting your partner, brush your teeth and clean your mouth thoroughly. 

In addition, we have foods that leave a bad odor in our mouths. Avoid such foods and take foods with a pleasing odor. Someone may say that after brushing their mouth still stinks. There is a solution for that, we have sweets that have an amazing aroma you can use. Actually, to improve your intimacy and kissing prowess, you can use sweets during kissing. This will be a moment to always remember. In case you have issues with your teeth and can’t take sweets you can use chewing gum.

Never kiss your partner without cleaning your mouth. Oral hygiene is very important, protecting self and partner from oral diseases. Imagine you are kissing someone and encountering food particles! Very disgusting scenario. Maintaining oral hygiene during sex will improve your intimacy and relationship in general.

In as much as how to prepare yourself before sex is a skill its also art, you must know how to handle your body in general.

Body hygiene before sex

Apart from oral hygiene, we have body hygiene which is also important. Before having sex you need to clean your armpits, legs, buttocks, and your sexual organ. Body cleanliness is vital, it gives you confidence about your body, and your partner will enjoy exploring your body. 

Clean your armpits

It’s not necessary to shave them, you just have to clean them. You don’t want a situation where your armpits are oozing rotten sweat. Take time and wash your armpits well. 

If your body odor smells bad, use perfumes and deodorant to improve freshness. These products are designed for such purposes. Some bodies do smell bad but use such products to sort yourself before sex. Your goal is to have incredible sex and intimacy. 

Clean your legs and fingers

Preparing your legs and fingers for sex may seem extra but it is necessary. The process is simple, trim your nails and clean them appropriately. Legs and fingers get in contact with a lot of germs. Clean the germs. 

Consequently, during sex, there is a lot of activity. In case you have long nails you may end up hurting your partner. Some use their fingers to pleasure each other. Imagine you never cleaned them and you had contact with pepper. There will be a fire in paradise.

Clean your buttocks

If you are well endowed with bottoms, take time to clean them. I understand it’s difficult for some to clean their anus, but please take time and clean yourself. It’s always a turn-off when you are having sex and smelling shit. 

Ensure you slash your butt with warm water if possible. The goal is to ensure your water is in there thoroughly and wipe it dry after. A swampy butt never saves lives. Generally, your private parts should always be dry. Wetness invites bacteria.

In addition, avoid taking heavy or watery foods that will make you visit the washroom always. When having sex or some hours before having sex you should not visit the toilet. You need to be clean. Apply some lotion or oil to have a good aroma around there. 

Clean your sexual organ

To achieve having clean sexual organs avoid eating too much and watery foods. Just take enough energy-giving foods, you need the energy. Wash your sexual organs well. Especially, if you engage in oral sex you need to be extra clean. 

A smelling sex organ can be a turn-off to your partner. Men wash your tail well, clean your balls too, and ensure there is no layer of dirt. Women, ensure she is clean and smelling good, you may get lucky that he eats it.

Emotional preparation before sex

Get in the mood. You are going to have sex, your mind should be on it. Forget about all other things and focus on this. Enjoyment equals concentration. Never go for sex when stressed, it won’t be good.

As partners, you need to be emotionally compatible. You should feel each other, want each other, long for each other and love each other. It should be a two-way direction and not one-way. Avoid mechanical sex, which is not enough. Connect both emotionally and physically. 

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Bonus points about how to prepare yourself before sex.

Change your panties and choose the best cloth

When preparing for sex get clean panties for the day. We have individuals who can use the same panties for several days. Am not judging you but when sex day arrives please change that panty. Clean panties save lives. 

Choose the best cloth, and do not dress for sex as if you are going to the farm. Put on loose clothing, that can be undressed quickly. Put on attire that can make your partner even want you more. Dress to turn someone on, and let them get horny just by seeing how you are dressed up. 

Eat the right food (before sex)

I have touched on this already in this article but let me discuss it further. You need to be picky with food when preparing for sex. This is why some foods make you fart consistently with a very bad smell. Imagine doing this when naked with your partner? Shameful. It’s a huge turnoff. 

Secondly, some foods either watery or heavy can make you visit the toilet frequently. Imagine having diarrhea and not cleaning your ass properly. Then you give your partner that style, it’s a disgusting view. A total turnoff, a good weekend, vacation, or meet-up will end there. During sex you need your private parts clean, so visiting the washroom should be for a short call if possible don’t visit the loos altogether.

Lastly, some foods leave a bad smell in your mouth even after brushing well. A good example is garlic, the smell can be there for days. During sex, you always kiss or even gasp for air. As you do this your partner will smell your breath. I suggested previously that you can use sweets or chewing gum to enhance your oral breath.

Prepare your partner

Let your partner know what exactly will happen. Consent is very important, it makes the whole act amazing. It also allows your partner to prepare herself or himself for what we discussed above. Do not ambush your partner with sex. 

Sometimes people will stay for days without bathing. Imagine you want to have sex with someone who has not cleaned for three days, panties are dirty, they have not brushed their teeth for two days and they are not emotionally ready. This would be absurd.

Always prepare your partner by texting them sexy words that would prepare them for the event. Give them as much as possible signals that you are going to do it. You don’t have to say it directly.

I hope after reading all these you have become a legend in these matters. How to prepare yourself before sex is a life skill. Ensure all your friends know these tips

Preparing yourself before sex saves lives.